Not everyone enjoys Christmas time. There are a variety of reasons for this. Stress (have you seen Aldi's Christmas ad this year?), grief over lost loved ones, disappointment that the family get-together didn't include reconciliation. I'm sure there are many more.
And it's only made worse by those Christmas songs that call this "the most wonderful time of the year". Those who don't find it wonderful feel pressure to enjoy this season, but it seems in the act of trying the joy slips out of reach.
We think we should be happy at Christmas time. We should enjoy time with our friends and family and good food. And these are right and good desires. That's why it hurts so much when they're not fulfilled.
But I think it's okay to have a good Christmas without these things. It's possible to have a good Christmas without these things. Because there are a number of things that we think Christmas is about that are actually wrong.
Christmas is not about your happiness.
Christmas is not about family.
Christmas is not about food, or presents, or generosity, or friendship.
Christmas is about Christ.
That little baby, whom God sent into the world as a gift. For God so loved the world that he gave his only son, so that whoever believes in him shall not die, but have eternal life (John 3:16).
Christmas is about Jesus. But you can't understand the gift if you only look at the baby in the manger. Take a look at Jesus' life, what he did when he grew up, how he died, and what happened next.
When we understand the gift God gave the world at Christmas time, we see that to truly enjoy Christmas is to receive this gift and thank God for it. So go and check out God's gift, you might be surprised.